The Commander
"I know exactly what needs to happen. I just need everyone else to catch up."
This leader has strong opinions about everything — the strategy, the process, the font on the slide deck. They move fast, decide quickly, and expect the people around them to execute without needing their hand held. They're often brilliant. They're also often exhausting.
What you'll notice
- Every decision routes back to them
- Meetings move fast but rarely close
- The team is talented but underutilized
- They interrupt — often with the right answer
- Energy is high; follow-through is patchy
What they need from you
- A filter — not everything needs their eyes
- Someone who can pre-decide at their standard
- Honest pushback they didn't ask for
- A way to slow down without feeling slow
- Visibility into what their team actually thinks
What not to do
- Don't become another yes-voice in the room
- Don't escalate everything — learn their bar
- Don't protect the team from their intensity
- Don't compete for the floor in meetings
- Don't confuse confidence with certainty
The CoS Move
Build a decision filter together — a written set of criteria for what requires their attention and what doesn't. Frame it as giving them more time for the things only they can do.
